Butlins Skegness

We decided to have a holiday with the little ones and everyone said Butlins was worth a try as they had got so much out of it. So we booked and paid monthly for a gold apartment and the dining plan. We also paid an extra £15 for a ground floor apartment. Who needs the hassle of stopping another child trying to jump from a balcony (Max tried it in Florida)

I can see the appeal of Butlins. There’s a beach, small fairground, soft play and parks, food, shows and a water park all on site. However, once you get into the centre it’s very busy, there’s pound rides everywhere, lights, noise and an amusement arcade in the main pavilion. Not exactly brilliant for Oliver-total overload. He ran. A lot. We took turns chasing him whilst the other looked after Popples. Meal times were not a family affair. Day two I drove to the supermarket to get food in for breakfast and for Oliver and some Peroni for me and the hubs. I sent him for breakfasts with Popples because it was paid for, he eats more and I’m not too bothered about breakfast. It saved the morning stress of trying to keep Olly occupied whilst we tried to eat.

The activities we did were fun. The beach was a big hit, he was straight into the sea laughing and splashing up to his armpits. I built castles with Popples as she is more wary of water although I did get her in for a paddle. The fairground has a section for under 150cm so they could go on rides by themselves which they loved and it was included in the holiday price.

The water park had a selection of pools and water slides. We went on one of them and the kids actually queued no problem for it. Soft play killed a couple hours. The climbing frames killed another hour. We didn’t get to any shows. We ate in shifts. We hardly slept, a new place with all those things to do hyped them both up. I slept in “the girls room” as it was named by the youngest. Hubs and Olly slept in the double bed. At least we didn’t have to listen to the snoring!

Because Oliver didn’t eat much for two days we decided to go to the Italian on site. Not nice and cost a chunk. The main meals on the dining plan were passable, just, puddings were lovely though. We had taken stickle bricks and dvds for them which settled him a little in our apartment. Bed time was another challenge. She wandered in and out needing the toilet (fifty times an hour 🙄), he tried climbing out of the bedroom window. He wouldn’t go in the shower, couldn’t have bathroom light on as it was an extractor fan and the noise bothered him. Thankfully he couldn’t reach the security chain on the door or that would have been someone on duty all night.

It’s nothing we didn’t expect although I did think they’d be tired from the days exertions and sleep a bit more. We didn’t really see much of each other. We didn’t get any relaxing time. Before we went we talked about it and accepted that it was the kids holiday and to not expect too much and I think it helped keep our stress levels down. Instead of losing it at dinner I took him out for a walk while dad and sister finished tea. The next day he did the same for me.

The kids loved it. We made it about them telling Popples she could do what she wanted, giving her options and telling her that if she didn’t like it she didn’t have to do it. She cried when we went swimming but we had made the plan where if she didn’t like it I’d take her to do something else and we’d meet up later (very scared of big water) and told her that it was up to her to tell me if she didn’t like it. No worries once she got in and saw it only came up to her knees in the baby pool. She went on the big slide with us too. Her confidence grew because she was in charge wherever we could let her.

Butlins has more on offer but not for us. Climbing walls and stuff were not appropriate for us. Golf wasn’t either. So I can see why people love it and go back time and again but I think it’ll be a while if we go back. If we do at all. The request for next year is Peppa Pig World. She was only a baby when we took Oliver so we are considering it.

I think expecting so little and having strategies in place helped us get in the right mind set. We made some amazing memories. I took her on her first grown up fairground ride and got to see her face filled with joy and hear her laughter. I got to see my son laughing and splashing his dad in a very cold sea. I got to eat as many puddings as I wanted. I got to see my children squeeze everything they could out of family time. They loved it. And because they loved it, it was worth the no sleep, no relaxation, running around keeping him safe and every penny we spent.

Because she didn’t get to see a show we are taking her to the theatre tomorrow.

Butlins by the sea – ticks a lot of boxes but for a family like ours doesn’t tick quite enough…… yet.

Xx

Anniversary- at Bletchley Park

Our first anniversary was spent at Bletchley Park- Home of the codebreakers.  I know it doesn’t sound very exciting but to nerdy history obsessives like me and my husband (I’ve converted him) it was something we really wanted to do.  The office in the picture was Alan Turing’s, it’s where he actually worked.  We saw the enigma machine’s, we saw part of the thinking machine working, we learned so much more about the Polish contribution and the other great people who worked long hours, in secrecy to help stop the war.  There was loads of stuff I didn’t understand, the actual maths behind it, and the works of Alan Turing that were on display were gobblydegook to me.

Then when we watched the Imitation game we used our new knowledge to impress eachother “that’s not the mansion we saw, google where that one actually is- see I told you it wasn’t the real one” etc.  It just brings it all a bit more to life walking in the footsteps of giants.

We got to eat hot food with no one moaning for a wee, or a drink or “can I try some of your food” which was bliss.  We didn’t go anywhere fancy, but it didn’t matter, just as long as we got to eat together and have an uninterrupted chat.  Time together is not something we get much of, which is why I wanted to go away for our anniversary, instead of just going for a meal locally.  We don’t blame the kids for the time they take up, but having three very demanding children at home and one who is just as needy even though she doesn’t live here, means having the odd weekend away is a big treat and something we need to recharge our batteries and reconnect.  We sometimes lose ourselves in the day to day challenges and lose each other.

Its his turn to pick what we are doing next year.  To be honest I don’t really care what he picks as long as he builds in a hot meal, and some cocktails!  I think when you live lives like ours, priorities change.  Fancy hotel, bar, pool- ah you can keep them as long as I can have a sleep and a hot meal……..maybe a pudding too!

xx